I cannot say I still love them, I just take the past as a part of myself, forgive and just let it be there.
I think you can never 'forget' someone you really loved, we broke up not because that we wanted to forget, we just wouldn't pray for the future anymore.
And young people here (in China) tend to seperate love from marriage. Marriage is one thing, love, quite another.
Maybe it's too practical...
This is also what bothers me a lot these days.