Elvish Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 My aunt (dad's sister) passed away yesterday morning after a brief battle with cancer. She was our favorite aunt growing up - I'm sad that she's one less person my children will get to know. And my brother was in a 4 wheeler accident over the weekend and is in really bad shape. He had emergency surgery last night and is still in critical intensive care, with further surgery scheduled for the evening. I'm packing up will be headed down to Memphis to maybe see him this afternoon. He's really not doing well - respirator, feeding tube and the whole nine yards. My sister says he's hour to hour at this point and the doctors can't promise us anything. So - please burn some incense or say a prayer. I'm not sure how much more loss we can take right now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Farin Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 It's always so hard for me to write a response to posts like this. It seems that I can never find the right words... so just let me say that I'll send all my best thoughts and wishes to you and your family! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elvish Posted May 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Thanks, Farin - no response needed, really (and I also know how difficult it is to find to words when someone expresses such intense need and/or loss). I just want to get some positive vibes out there in the universe for Wade. He's only 27 years old - lots of living left to do... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tenacious_Peaches Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Crystal, I am so sorry to hear about your aunt and your brother. I'll be praying for you and your family. Please make sure that you remember to take care of yourself throughout this trying time. Your little bundle needs a healthy mama. We love you, honey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Seeker Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 I'm sorry to hear about your aunt -- and hope all goes well with your brother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edna Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 We´re all praying for your brother, Elvy... And sending you all the possible loving vibes to you and your family. We love you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steel2Velvet Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 My wife and I send our heartfelt considerations and a rush of hope to you and your family right now, Crystal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulGirl Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 aw crystal honey, i'm very sorry to hear your sad news. i hope you and your family will get through this difficult time together. i'll be thinking of you. much love-xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Levis Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Elvy, I'm so sorry about that. You know we're there for you if you need anything and we'll do whatever we can to make you feel ANY better. *squish* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Crystal, I'm so sorry to hear this. Please know that my prayers are with you and your family (your brother most especially). I unfortunatly understand how tough the next few days will be. Hang in there, and be tough. Prayers and good thougths go a long way, so keep them up and be strong and positive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Laurie_ Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Crystal, you have our thoughts and prayers...We are here for you if you need us... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sweet Jane 61 Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Crystal, honey you and your family have my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us informed, we are your family here at SF and if you need us, please don't hesitate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawna Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 positive thoughts and wishes coming your way 24/7 from AZ... Take care of yourself and yours... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phil Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 From my family to yours, we wish you the best and hope everything turns out well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elvish Posted May 28, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 Thanks, y'all. I love my Songfacts family so much - you are the best people, anywhere I'm still waiting to make the trip. Wade was supposed to have a second surgery this afternoon and I was afraid that I wouldn't be able to see him after getting down there. Plus, I have Nicholas to think about (not to mention the little sprout in utero). My brother's doing much better than they expected, though. Was responsive this morning and responding to requests from staff, plus my mom and sister just got to see him. Apparently he took his own respirator tube out (they aren't sure how, since his hands are strapped down - that's my brother for you). He's breathing on his own and talked to Mom and Brandie a bit...some of it a little nonsensical, of course. Plus, he's flirting with the nurses so that's a good sign as well Keep up the positive energy going out into the universe on his behalf. They've pushed his second surgery back to this evening. I think if he gets through that one as well as this one, he's going to be fine. We're still waiting to hear regarding arrangements for my aunt. My uncle was trying to wait until Mom got back (she was in Springfield over the weekend) but now that all this has happened with my brother, they're going ahead and making plans without Mom. I figure we're headed to either the Bootheel or Memphis first thing in the morning, one way or another. Thanks again, y'all - you truly are wonderful... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edna Posted May 28, 2007 Report Share Posted May 28, 2007 I´m so glad your brother is doing better... and I´m still burning incense to my gods... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MarcM Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 I am sorry to hear about your aunt, Crystal. I know what you mean about wishing your kids could meet the people that were important in your life. Glad to hear your brother is showing signs of improving. They must have some hot nurses down there in Tennessee. Reminds me of that line at the end of "Start Me Up..." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rayzor Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 Elvy, prayers and good thoughts from the great white north, hun! It's good to hear your brother is flirting with the nurses, that's always a good sign when it comes to men! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonJonSurfer Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 We'll keep the thoughts and prayers going for you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jenny Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 My deepest condolences about your aunt, Crystal. I'm glad to hear your brother is doing well. I hope he continues to improve so he can meet his new niece soon. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoulGirl Posted May 29, 2007 Report Share Posted May 29, 2007 that sounds really positive about your brother, crystal. please god he will continue to improve and make a speedy recovery. if the breathing tube incident is anything to go by, he certainly has the determination to do so! much love-xo Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lucky Posted May 31, 2007 Report Share Posted May 31, 2007 Elvy, things sound wonderful about your brother, I'm so happy. All the things you mentioned are good, good signs!! All the positive energy, and prayers do work! The family will pull together in this tough time, for your mom, and uncle, and be better for it. My condolences hon, concerning your aunt. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elvish Posted May 31, 2007 Author Report Share Posted May 31, 2007 We are back and exhausted! Wade continues to do 100% better than expected - it really is miraculous. He's out of ICU and into a "serious condition" room. He not sedated anymore and a bit freaked out at the prospect of almost dying, but we're working to keep his spirits up and get him on the road to recovery. My aunt is at peace - she was originally given 3-4 months to live, but only made it one, so she didn't have to suffer as long as she could have. It's hard to say goodbye, but all the loss and tragedy really helps put life in prospective. Tell people how much you love them at every opportunity. Thanks again to everyone for your prayers and positive thoughts. Songfactors are the best people anywhere and I'm so honored to be one of you. Y'all are awesome! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tenacious_Peaches Posted May 31, 2007 Report Share Posted May 31, 2007 I am so pleased to hear positive news, Elvy. I'll continue to keep your brother and entire family in my thoughts. How are you holding up through all of this? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
edna Posted May 31, 2007 Report Share Posted May 31, 2007 Elvy, tell your brother there´s a bunch of freaks called "songfactors" who are sending all their positive energy to him... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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