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Hey Jenny, I just read about the potty dilemma. Don't sweat it. I'll bet part of it is a power struggle thing. Your little girl is sensing your desire and frustration, and she's exerting her muscle! AsPeaches said, there could be a little fear there too, though she'll probably not admit to that.I've raised 4 kids, each one very different. In the grand scheme of things, the potty just isn't as important as they would have you believe. It'll happen all in her own good time! :)

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We were all having kids at the same time, now we are all going through the potty training thing together! Mya is the same way, #1 but no #2 in the toilet. She will not do it. We tried the same stuff as far as stickers on a calendar and prizes, etc, as well as panties. We are a little stressed because she ideally, she should be potty trained before September for pre school, or she will loose her spot in the class. Getting into a pre school here is very competitive, and takes a certain amount of luck to get in. If she is still not 100% trained, we are going to send her anyway. If she has an accident, we will tell them it was due to stress or make up some other BS story.

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Thanks for the continuing suggestions, everyone. I am now trying a chart and every #1 she can draw a star with a glitter pen, every #2 will be a sticker. I am not telling her what the reward will be at the end or when the end even is, I just praise her when she goes and I constantly teel her that she's a big girl who is in control, and that it's her decision.

This morning she said she didn't want pull-ups, so when I asked her what she wanted she said underwear. If she wears underwear to daycare, she has to be two weeks with few to no accidents, so I promised her that when she got home from daycare she could wear underwear, so we'll see.....

I haven't said anything to the daycare yet, but I am ready to rumble!!!!!!

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You know this song, "Cry me a river" (not the Justin Timberlake one) sung by Julie London, Joe Cocker, etc...

It says:

"Remember, I remember, all that you said

You told me love was too plebeian

Told me you were through with me and..."

What does "plebeian" mean? I´m much too lazy now to call my British friends on the phone and ask them...

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Thank you, Farin, :bow: but that I knew... ;) I meant, does it have any other sense? How could love be "plebeian" or "aristocratic"? :P

according to Mirriam-Webster online, "plebeian" is defined:

1 : a member of the Roman plebs

2 : one of the common people

So it could be either aristocratic (as the Romans thought themselves back in the day) or common...

I've been busy on m-w.com today. :grin:

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when you talk about love in the most basic sense, I agree, it can't be classified. But snooty people will always feel that their brand of love is better, more blue-blood than the peasants in the valley, and therefore more meaningful.

We peasants, however, realize that, while love comes in different forms (romantic, mother-child, friendship) money-class has nothing to do with it.

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