sadlerj Posted December 23, 2009 Report Share Posted December 23, 2009 okay, well lately ive found out who my real friends are, and in particular one person who has especially been getting to me is this ex mate of mine who i thought i was pretty close to. recently i organised a meal for a group of people that for some unknown reason were all of a sudden excluded from 'the group' and our outings. in the process of organizing this meal for these supposed social pariahs i lost this friend among others. this one in particular took it very personally that she was not included, which seems silly to me that she cares that she wasnt around people she didnt care about enough to stay in contact with. she's an awful compulsive liar, with her lies being funny more than believable yet she continues to adamantly maintain they are true (i am the only one that has called her up on these untruths although the whole group bitches about her behind her back, which is one reason ive decided that my 'friends' should change cos apparently bitching is fine and normal). so basically i find music helps to calm me down or sort of put things at ease, any songs about new starts with new friends, or songs about backstabbers, songs about two faced friends or liars because i cant seem to find a lot that are that specific... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skybluesky Posted December 23, 2009 Report Share Posted December 23, 2009 Backstabbers by the O'Jays most obviously. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Uncle Joe Posted December 23, 2009 Report Share Posted December 23, 2009 ^^^ that's the one ^^^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
_Laurie_ Posted December 24, 2009 Report Share Posted December 24, 2009 Backstabbers, excellent choice! You could also check out Songfacts list of songs... Click Here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jk Posted December 29, 2009 Report Share Posted December 29, 2009 "(I'm Not Your) Steppin' Stone" by The Monkees, would also be a good fit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bazooka Posted December 30, 2009 Report Share Posted December 30, 2009 I'm not a psychologist (although I play one on TV), but I would suggest another approach. Rather than stewing in bitterness, wouldn't it be more 'calming' to pick uptempo songs that make you feel good about No. 1 (yourself) ? I'm supposing people in your former 'group' are roughly your own age. Some of them may wind up be a-holes for the rest of their lives, but I'm pretty sure most of them won't. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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